Question 1

How much life insurance does a 35-year-old with two kids need?

Accepted Answer

Using the DIME method for a 35-year-old earning $80,000 with a spouse and two kids: Debts: $30,000 (car + credit cards) + $15,000 funeral = $45,000. Income: $80,000 × 15 years = $1,200,000. Mortgage: $280,000. Education: 2 kids × $75,000 = $150,000. Total: $1,675,000. Minus existing savings/coverage: $50,000. Coverage needed: ~$1,625,000. A $1.5M 20-year term policy for a healthy 35-year-old non-smoker costs roughly $65–$80/month — less than most people's phone bill.

Question 2

Term life vs whole life: which should I buy?

Accepted Answer

For most working Americans: term life. Whole life costs 5–15x more per dollar of coverage and comes with a savings component that generally underperforms alternatives. A 35-year-old can get $1M in 20-year term coverage for ~$40–$50/month. The same $1M in whole life runs $700–$1,000/month. The 'buy term and invest the difference' strategy almost always produces better outcomes than whole life — invest the premium difference in index funds instead. The one exception: if you've maxed every other tax-advantaged account and need a non-correlated asset with guaranteed death benefit.

Question 3

Do stay-at-home parents need life insurance?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely — and this is chronically underinsured. The economic value of a stay-at-home parent includes childcare (average $35,000–$45,000/year for a nanny), household management, cooking, transportation, and emotional labor. If a stay-at-home parent dies, the surviving spouse needs funds to cover those services until the children are independent. A $500,000–$750,000 policy costs $25–$40/month for a healthy 30-35 year old — and it's one of the most important financial decisions a family makes.

Question 4

What does life insurance actually cover — and what does it exclude?

Accepted Answer

Life insurance pays the death benefit for virtually any cause of death, including natural causes, accidents, and illness — after the policy is in force (typically 2 years). Common exclusions: suicide within the first 2 years (contestability period), death from an excluded high-risk activity listed in the policy (some extreme sports, aviation if you're the pilot), and fraud on the application. If you lied on your application about smoking or health conditions, the insurer can contest the claim during the contestability period.

Question 5

When should I review my life insurance coverage?

Accepted Answer

Review whenever your financial situation changes significantly: marriage or divorce, birth or adoption of a child, buying a home, income change over 25%, or if your youngest child becomes financially independent. Also review when your term policy expires — a 20-year policy bought at 35 expires at 55, potentially leaving you uninsured exactly when coverage becomes more expensive. Many people set a calendar reminder to review at every major life event and annually.

Factor	What to Include	Example
D — Debt	Credit cards, auto loans, student loans, funeral costs ($15k–$20k)	$52,000
I — Income	Annual income × years dependents need support (typically 10–20)	$80k × 15 = $1.2M
M — Mortgage	Full remaining mortgage balance	$280,000
E — Education	College fund per child (avg. $50k–$120k each)	2 × $75k = $150k
Total		$1,682,000
Minus savings/existing coverage		−$50,000
Coverage Gap		$1,632,000

Age	$500k / 20-Year	$1M / 20-Year	$2M / 20-Year
30	~$22/month	~$38/month	~$70/month
35	~$28/month	~$48/month	~$90/month
40	~$42/month	~$72/month	~$138/month
45	~$72/month	~$125/month	~$235/month
50	~$120/month	~$210/month	~$395/month

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